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How to Compromise?

I’m at a point where it’s hard to take care of 80% of the relationship and be willing to compromise 50% of the time. I know a good relationship will not require fairness.  Life is not fair, and relationships cannot … Continue reading

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Loving Yourself

You’re not a doormat, you’re a doorprize ~Marge Simpson Also a book by Dr. Jay Grady

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Unconditional Love

So far does not exist for me, except for pets.  I have been wondering how to love people in the same way. This post talking about the lessons learned after 30 years of marriage has a similar message in the … Continue reading

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Some Inspiration…

These five stories of couples who saved their relationships gives some great advice on what can make it work.  For me, maybe it’s the idea that we should continue to grow together, but that sounds like just an intro to … Continue reading

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I think it’s my fault

This is a big oops, i think.  Let’s see if I can tell a short version of this story. Started dating my boyfriend, moved in after 8 months and then 1 year after we started dating, he had a big … Continue reading

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the Secret to a Succesful Relationship?

… stay with a man long enough that he will subconsciously adopt your ideas as his own, and praise him when he suggests the idea as a completely new thought on the situation. One on hand, this feels completely wrong … Continue reading

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Baby Steps toward making it work

Neither of us are good communicators, which just makes small things seem so big and out of control.  I hate to stereotype genders, but my guy does have some of the typical male syndrome of not always listening.  He lets … Continue reading

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